Go with the flow.

It's confirmed. Maybe it was too hard to believe. But it was expected. So much for trying to convince myself. I'll just go where the river takes me. After all, things are much better that way. I'll move along.

13th December

13th of December.

The Birthday of 3 people.

Mum

Isabel

Shra.


Happy Birthday
to you girls

It was a surprise dinner for my mother. It was initially meant for my niece, Isabel. But then since my mum's birthday is on the same day. We celebrated it together. =). Special thanks to Liao and Yvonne for the help.

Random Pictures of the Mum and Isabel's dinner

Women.

Like a rare flower, they are most beautiful when they are left as they are. Once picked, they are so fragile, easily wilt, and requires ALOT of attentions. Something you would love to have, but so difficult to manage. Once in your life, it may give you the biggest feeling of completion. One that may acompany you through the hardship and the easy times. OR everything may be vice versal. Worth the time? Worth the sacrifices you are bound to make? This isn't just mere hobby. It's a commitment. It's all about perceptive.

George Carlin

George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's - wrote something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate..

A Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side..

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent..

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Tagged once again...

Tagged before I even had anything to blog about. LOL, ah well.


1. Jun Xian

2. Kenny

3. Ridhuan

4. Derick

5. Evelyn

6. Danil

7. Catherine

8. Shobs


The Questions

1)Do you love number 5?
- Yes, my 'sister' who I met from church. =D

2)Does number 3 have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
- Err... if he has, I wouldn't be surprised. But and then again... That's a good question. =D

3)Are you dating anyone on your top?
- Nay

4)how long have you known 8?
- Ooo.. interesting.. how long arh? =D Gosh she'll kill me if i dun remember. Hehe, but of course I do. It's between the two of us. =D

5)where did you meet 7?
- SIC Youth Rally 07'. But I din go for this year's... ;( sorry Cat..

6)have you ever kissed 4?
- What? O___o

7)Have you ever hugged 5?
- Lol... Many times. =D

8)Have you slept over 2’s house?
- No. But yea, we should try that and room-raid him. XD

9)what do you do when you hang out with 6?
- Come to think of it, we've never hang out. ;S Danny, we've got a date man. ;D

10)Does 1 make you laugh?
- Lol, yea. Real nice guy. Friends forever? =)

11)Have you ever talked to 4 on IM?
- yea. Often in fact. =)

12)Do you go to school with number 2?
- Yes. SMK(L) BB. Those were the days lar bro. Haha.

13)Do you know 5’s middle name?
- Gosh .. good question. Evelyn Toh.. wait that's surname... oh crap.. ;S EVIE!!!

14)What is a inside joke between you and 2?
- Err.. What arh?

15)What do you do when you hang out with 7?
- Yea, we makan together on and on at college. =D But can no longer do so... T____T Your SAM finish liao...

16)Would you do anything for 7?
- Yea! Bring her out and jalan jalan for her belated birthday present. Haha

17)Is 3 one of your best friends?
- I would say Good friends. =) We kinda lost contact for a while haven't we. We've got lots to catch up bro.

18)What would you change about 1?
- His beer and Baby Milo tops. LoL. More variety man. Haha

19)Has 8 ever thought you anything?
- ALOT. =) Thanx for the advices , dear.

20)Does number 6 annoy you?
- Sometimes when he doesn't reply to my IMs in time... by the fact that he stays 24/7 online, he's not always around. LOL

Tagged

Tagged by Zeie. Never knew how to play at all. Haha... I was smsing her " How to play arh?" XD My first time playing tagging. So yea, here it goes.

7 Love Questions.

7 of your Perfect Partner's Personality

1. Kind-hearted
2. Cheerful and remembers to smile even in the darkest moments
3. Will always be there when I am falling to my knees
4. NEVER Criticize what I do
5. Understands how my weird mind works
6. Always help others in anyway she can as long it is for the better
7. Enjoys being with children

7Men/Women You Have been Interested in/Loved

1. Johnny Depp
2. Avril Lavigne
3. YUI
4.Celine Dion
5. Keira Knightley
6. Orlando Bloom
7. Heath Ledger

( Who say one can't be interested or in love with an actor or actress shows?)

7 Feelings You Feel if You Go Out with Someone you Like

1. Happiness?
2. Nervous at times
3. Comfortable yet uncomfortable
4. Just feel like giving out a smile
5. Anxious about almost anything
6. Those anxiety feelings
7. Just the simple feeling of happiness that she's here with me =)

7 Special Places You'd Bring your Partner

1. Paris
2. Rome
3. Switzerland
4. Italy
5. Greece
6. Russia
7. Malaysia's beautiful spots

7 Things You'd Give to Him/Her as a Present

1. A peck. =)
2. Well I would cook for her (if I even do), but it would be worth cooking for her (though it may not end up nice, it's the effort that counts, no? ;) )
3. Flowers? Maybe the pretty ones from the jungle?Because roses are just... so so common. >___>
4. I would love to write poems for her... but I seriously suck at literature.
5. I would go shopping with her. ONLY on her birthday. >___> ( My close friends know just how much I dislike shopping... but I'll do it on a special occasion like her birthday)
6. Maybe compiling her pictures in a photo album and write on the front cover of the album " My Life"
7. Just spending precious time with her.

7 Songs You'd Sing to your Partner

1. Say - John Meyer
2. Little Things - Rob Thomas
3. One more chance, One more time - Masayoshi Yamazaki
4. Whatever it takes - Lifehouse
5.Innocence - Avril Lavigne
6. It's been a while - Staind
7. You look Good in My Shirt - Keith Urban

There you go. =) I tag...


Shobs
Clare
Danil
Jen Nee
Esther Lee
Zhen
Abang fadhir
Chiu


Have fun! =D

Humans

How amazing are we?

How special are we anyway?

How are we different from animals?

Sense?

How is this sense gonna differentiate us from animals?


Are we really the only one who can 'rule' the rest of the species in the world?

I doubt so.

I hate the fact that we are the only species who kill our own species for whatever the reasons.


I hate the fact that we are the most intelligent creatures, yet all we create were only designed to destroy or grab what's not ours.


I hate the fact we have much knowledge to share yet we do not share it all for the sake of worrying others may go further than us.


I hate the fact that we are trying to turn our world into something we desire or considered 'perfect' when everything were perfect the way HE created it.


I hate the fact that we do at times do things that we 'think' or 'feel' is right when it hurts so many people and we don't really care.


I hate the fact that there are such amongst us who think trust really is something we can use and manipulate others to do things their way.


I hate the fact that we have something called racism and sexism when no men or women is not the same in their ways.


I hate the fact that people use religion to cover for what they do for. 'Destroying infidels' and 'killing non-believers' . Eg. the Mumbai terror outbreak and the Bali bombers who killed more locals then the tourist and they dare say they kill infidels. In the end who really is the wrong one? The religion or the people? For making such a peace-loving religion into something the world now looks so badly down at, are these people or the religion at fault?


I hate the fact that men are the only ones who falls for bribery and corruptions.


I hate the fact that when something really needs to be changed for the better, people reply by saying "This is reality". Yet this reality that these people talk about is something that can be done but is just a little more difficult to be changed or that it was said impossible before even attempted.


I hate the fact that some women does abortion when the child were the parents' mistake. Even if, they were accidental. A child never chooses his/her parents. They were gifts and blessings for the parents.


I hate the fact that men tries to act as god. Trying to make things 'better'. Hybrid creatures and half-man animals. More like trying to see how horrifying it would be, should there be such creatures alive.

In the end, who were we to even touch or do anything with nature?

Are we really destined to lead the world and it's inhibitants to a better future?

By still allowing Japanese to hunt whales even though these gentle creatures are on the verge of extinction?

Allowing countries like America to still buy20 years supply of these fossil fuels to be sold to other countries till it's dried clean and which by then we all may not know but the world may be flooded or so hot that we can no longer live on land thanks to global warming*?

*(Some phenomenal which was now claimed to be a false fact by some scientist perhaps hired by America to continue their sale of oil in the name of the green devil (money)) ?


Now that's reality. That's us, Humans.

"Can any civilization wage relentless war on life without destroying itself and without losing the right to be called civilized?" - Rachel Carson